THE IMPORTANCE OF BALANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP

 HOW TO LEAD A VERY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. SUSTAINED BY SUPPORT.

First of all it's gotten hard nowadays to find a meaningful partner. Why, everything seems superficial in the sense that the most people have lost trust, hope and control over their actions. Drugs and alcohol are to blame, you may say... so how about drinking moderately? Well I say no, not at all if you are with your spouse.

The things you talk about may differ from the generous or hopeful and meaningful talks you normally have together. It's even worse if one of you is not working, and that is my prime focus on this article.

The economy and the standards of leaving have gotten higher these days. It's good to love unconditionally but you will soon realize just how challenging it is to deal with a non worker, I don't mean to  suggest chaos but it's a fact. Talk about things like rent or food if you live together... it starts to become a strain having to look after somebody else all the time. You will also have to deal with their lack of self esteem and confidence. You will have to put up with every negativity they may impose on you. All of these things will slowly annoy you if not make you wish for a much simple alternative. I think this adds to a lot of domestic violence we see daily. 

But if both of you were working or one of you own some business, than that won't be the case. Why? because most of the time you discuss a way forward in your future plans instead of one of you planning that. I encourage people to really look into that before getting too attached with one another... BE GOOD.